The traditional dildo dates back to ancient times, when couples or individuals felt the need to insert any phallus shaped object they could find into whatever orifice pleased them most. While the idea most certainly stemmed from carrots and cucumbers, a dildo today is a man made object made from a variety of materials, smooth or bumpy, and can either be realistic looking, or bear no resemblance at all to an actual penis aside from its general shape.
Contemporary dildos incorporate the use of technology to compliment the basic shape of the phallus, adding vibrations and gyrations that the modern woman or man has come to expect from a sex toy. While the term vibrator encompasses a much broader range of shapes and sizes, the dildo by definition is shaped like a penis, and may or may not include testicles.
One might think that a dildo is used mainly for masturbatory purposes, but in reality they are finding their way into the bedrooms of homo and heterosexual couples of both sexes. For the heteros, the phallus can fill the void that women sometimes find with a partner whose member does not quite, well, fill the void! For the insecure male, this could lead to penis envy. Well adjusted males realize that no sex toy can replace the human touch, and are secure in knowing they are providing their lover with a complete, full filling, sexual experience.
Homosexual men are employing the dildo as an anal stimulator, often in combination with simultaneous oral activities, or as a prostrate tickler for the dominant male going in from behind. The possibilities of combinations are restricted only by the imagination of the gay male.
For lesbian couples who prefer the company of their own sex but still like to be penetrated, the strap on dildo lets the couple simulate hetero sex in a variety of positions, enjoying the benefits of straight sex with the added advantage of a womans touch. Double headed dildos allow both lovers to be penetrated at the same time, rocking back and forth, leaving their hands and mouths free to gently squeeze, kiss, and suck, as they reach climax over and over again.
For the lone rider, many dildos have a suction cup at the base, giving the home-aloner an opportunity to practice their contortions any where they want.
When deciding what dildo to buy, the most important consideration is size, both length and width. You may know what you can handle and want to go straight for the foot long. But if you're not sure, try out some fruits or vegetables first. Avoid cheap dildos that are made for novelty purposes and are prone to break easily. Once you find the right dildo for you, you'll have a friend for life!
Thermal Plastic Vaginas for Men
It sometimes seems that with the broad range of sex toys available, most of them are designed for pleasuring women. But now, with the help of new innovations like thermal plastics that bend, stretch, and warm to the skin, a new day is dawning for male masturbation. Artificial vaginas, mouths and anuses, made from materials marketed as Cyberskin and Jel-Lee, are designed to stretch at penetration and fit tightly over an erect penis, and with the help of a little lubrication, can stand up to some pretty hefty pelvic thrusting to simulate the touch and feel of sex.
Full size sex dolls made from lifelike materials allow penetration of their artificial vaginas, mouths, and rectums, will warm up with some human contact, and can capture ejaculated semen like a plastic baseball glove.
Porn stars and models are having molds taken of their buttocks and anuses, detailed renderings of their labia vaginas and clits, even including their stomachs and upper thighs to form a torso that is painted and detailed in such a way as to be a perfect replica of their own genitalia. Marketed under their name, and as a safe sex alternative, what man wouldn't want to have his very own porn star at his beck and call.
For the visual stimulation that men seem to crave, technology once again comes to the rescue. Interactive games packaged with a plastic cyber orifice plug directly into your computers USB port, giving real meaning to the term cyber sex. Now, instead of just watching porn, men can dictate to their animated lovers just what it is they want them to do (few argue), and as they lube up and slip into their new plastic sex toy, they can thrust away as they watch their cyber friend climax while matching gyrations stroke for stroke.
Sex Toys: not just for women anymore!
Edible Panties, Body Paints, and Gels
What will we think of next! The sex toy industry has obliged our fantasy of merging food and sex by conjuring up such appetizing morsels as edible panties, pasties, and tattoos, as well as flavored condoms, edible body paints, and a wide variety of edible gels, lubricants, and body oils. Now every orifice that used to be considered offensive by some, smells and tastes as good as it gets. Bubble gum, passion fruit, the ever popular cherry, and even the no, dont go there! chocolate flavors make a hefty bout of sex like a trip to the candy store.
In the bedroom, todays modern couple leaves no sense behind!
Adult Sex Games and Party Kits
For those who like to play games, you'll be happy to know there is no shortage of such diversions in the marketplace today. From a simple evening of strip poker with a deck of sexually explicit playing cards, to board games that require the loser (or winner) to perform a variety of tasks on their partner, sex games turn a boring evening in front of the tube into an interactive session of foreplay, culminating in the desired outcome of undoubtedly hot sex! For the kinky, some sado-masochist games can get pretty intense. Be careful there!
Party kits are also becoming popular with the sexually active. Kits for occasions such as honeymoons, bachelorette parties, weekend getaways, or just to celebrate sex are available in abundance in the adult novelty market.
To be a sexually active member of todays society is an experience rich in choice and variety. Thanks to the sex toys, adult novelties and games that are available at the click of a mouse, now anyone, whether in a relationship or not, can lead a healthy, happy, and fulfilling sex life.
Writer Michael Talbert explores society, relationships, and human sexuality, and is a contributing author to Indoor Games lingerie and adult novelty website and store.
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